Once they have been affected---once "it" sets in---codependency takes on a life of its own. It is similar to catching pneumonia or picking up a destructive habit. Once you've got it, you've got it. If you want to get rid of it, YOU have to do something to make it go away. It doesn't matter whose fault it is. Your codependency becomes your problem; solving your problems is your responsibility. Melody Beattie
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In the movie, Crash, a character says: "Once they have been affected---once "it" sets in---codependency takes on a life of its own. It is similar to catching pneumonia or picking up a destructive habit. Once you've got it, you've got it.If you want to get rid of it, YOU have to do something to make it go away. It doesn't matter whose fault it is.

Your codependency becomes your problem; solving your problems is your responsibility." This quote is from the movie Crash, where the main character of the movie, Miles, says this line about his partner, Annie. In order for them to overcome their addiction to alcohol and drugs, they must change the way they think about themselves and their lives. They must give up their codependent attitudes and behaviors and take charge of their own lives.

Source: Codependent No More: How To Stop Controlling Others And Start Caring For Yourself

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